The Value of Connections
The Value of Connections
In the world as we know it, do we even recognize the value of connections?
The internet is overflowing with useful and useless information. We are faced with split second choices on what offers us value. Constantly. I mean constantly! I cannot tell you how many times I have started reading a blog or watching a video only to click away with a heavy sigh realizing I have wasted precious moments of my life. Now this might sound mean and that is not my intention. We all have different motivations and what works for some might not work for others. That is one of the beautiful things about life, there is a place for everybody.
But, we can also get stuck searching for ‘our tribe’ and get lost along the way. My very long-winded point here is I don’t want you to feel like my ramblings are a waste of your time. I want you to feel like you have landed on the page of someone as real as you are, who understands that your time is precious. Don’t get me wrong, I’m gonna ramble! That’s what I’m here for! But I hope my ramblings will include words that make you feel at ease, understood and hopefully inspired to live your best life.
So often we look at what separates us instead of what connects us
I want us to see those similarities and remember we are part of one big family. The world would be a different place if we all learned to see each other more as ‘the same’ rather than as ‘different’. We all love, we all hurt, we all dream and we all hope. If we could recognize this in each other what a difference it could make! Imagine if we didn’t hide our emotions. We would immediately know if it was time to back off or time for a cuddle. But, we have been suppressing our emotions for so long we don’t even know how to read each other anymore.
Having emotions at all is almost unacceptable. In the work place we act like robots, our shields well in-tact. By the time we get home to our families we are so tired of the façade we literally break down and our emotions are released like a flood. But, the truth of the matter is, if we showed them more we would more easily accept them. And, accepting our emotions is the starting point for being able to express them.